Today I decided to clean my email box. I hadn't done that in four years so you can imagine the tons of mails I had plus those from social network sites. Anyways, I re-discovered an old email message that made it worthwhile. It was sent about four years ago by a highschool classmate a few months before I graduated. I remeber when I first saw it I was speechless and confused. Well, what do you expect from a sixteen year old girl. But, what he didn't know was that his words had a profound effect on me and made me want to strive to be a better lady than I was. Here is the message he sent;
Hey how u doing? There's something that's been heavy on my heart for a while now and i think I have to confess.
Ever since the day i met you, i was attracted by you. Your maturity, your character, etc. I tried being with other girls and i entered the illusion that i could forget you but unfortunately, it was to no avail. Every time you appear in my mind. There's something about you, your inaccessibility that gives you a particular charm no other girl has.
Unfortunately, I realize that you are too different and also too serious and that I have very low chances with you but nevertheless, I will feel better once you know what i feel about you. I'm not asking for anything, I just want to relieve myself by confessing. I hope this won't alter our friendship and won't change the way you see me. Don't worry nothing will change.
PS: PLEASE DONT TELL ANYONE ABOUT THIS AND DELETE THIS MESSAGE AS SOON AS YOU'VE FINISHED READING IT.
Sorry, because it did change things. It made me appreciate the frienship we had I was blessed to have known you. Sorry again, because I didnt follow the instructions couldn't delete it.Who knows maybe it is going to touch a heart today. Also, this made me realize that there would always be someone who would love you for who you are. Even if you are 'serious' like me or 'friendly' and if man can see past negative aspects and appreciate a person.. How much more God?
In conclusion, this is the season for sharing. God shared his only begotten son with the world and this memory is so unforgettable that we've been celebrating him for more than two hundred years. Let's also give others unforgettable memories this season!
Monday, December 19, 2011
Sunday, December 11, 2011
It's December finally! really.. so soon?
I don't know about other West African countries but in Ghana it is on the onset of harmattan that we realize that Christmas and New year are just around the coner, a bit like when children get excited when they see the first drop of snow in the west. Today, went to church as usual but noticed that my throat was suddenly dry, my lips were chapped and my fingers were cold and those are the unmistaken symptomps of harmattan.
So, since 2011 is left with a few days I might as well just take stock of it now and leave the resolutions for next year to be written on the 31st.
This year frankly has not been all rosy, with the war in Ivory Coast, my mum's new school in Ghana, the death of my friend's father and I recently learnt my childhood friend who used to go to church with me is pregnant. Hmm, really made me recognize the blessing that I had supportive friends and family to protect me and keep me on the right path. I thank God for that.
Counting my 2011 blessings:
1. Started this blog this year and another http://accra2madrid.wordpress.com/ also tarted re-writing in my diary.
2. I met my boyfriend this year :)
3.. Made so much great friends like Bernard, Junior etc( benard see wrote about you )
4. Went to about eight weddings this year.
5. Went to alot of christian concerts.
6. I emceed for the first time at a friends
7.Got a learners driver's licence
8. I have been doing aerobics twice a week.
9.Met with alot of childhood friends that I hadn't seen in ages
10. Had lunch at Movenpick with my spiritual father it was awesome!
11. Read approximately 50 books, some bestsellers others christian.
Crazy stuff I did in 2011:
1. Ate sushi ( yeah it's crazy for a typical African)
2. Rode on a motobike several times
3. Watched Korean series
4. Catwalked at a fashion show organized by my church
Conclusion: It was a pretty much interesting year, next year would be better and crazier.
So, since 2011 is left with a few days I might as well just take stock of it now and leave the resolutions for next year to be written on the 31st.
This year frankly has not been all rosy, with the war in Ivory Coast, my mum's new school in Ghana, the death of my friend's father and I recently learnt my childhood friend who used to go to church with me is pregnant. Hmm, really made me recognize the blessing that I had supportive friends and family to protect me and keep me on the right path. I thank God for that.
Counting my 2011 blessings:
1. Started this blog this year and another http://accra2madrid.wordpress.com/ also tarted re-writing in my diary.
2. I met my boyfriend this year :)
3.. Made so much great friends like Bernard, Junior etc( benard see wrote about you )
4. Went to about eight weddings this year.
5. Went to alot of christian concerts.
6. I emceed for the first time at a friends
7.Got a learners driver's licence
8. I have been doing aerobics twice a week.
9.Met with alot of childhood friends that I hadn't seen in ages
10. Had lunch at Movenpick with my spiritual father it was awesome!
11. Read approximately 50 books, some bestsellers others christian.
Crazy stuff I did in 2011:
1. Ate sushi ( yeah it's crazy for a typical African)
2. Rode on a motobike several times
3. Watched Korean series
4. Catwalked at a fashion show organized by my church
Conclusion: It was a pretty much interesting year, next year would be better and crazier.
Saturday, November 12, 2011
Day after 11/11/11
I am still alive yipee! It's more than 24hrs after the end of the world and I'm blogging. Did something happen and I was left behind or is this an imaginary life? This semester has been hectic for me, I have read more than eight literary classics and one of the strangest one is entitled 'La vida es sueno' where the protagonist is drugged and put in different locations to test his character. In the end he is confused and can not distinguish between reality and illusion. Maybe it is the same case here lol. I think people became obsessed with the Apocalypse in 2006 on the 06/06/06 day. I remember I was in school and had friends who had not slept the night before and had been on the net researching on all types of conspiracy theories. So,that morning assembly was more serious than ever people were seriously praying,others were whispering and I remember our librarian had come with so much printed theories about the end of the world. Truthfully, some of them were very convincing like the calculation of 'http' equaled to '666' and several others. Even, I became infected with the bug I spent hours on the net researching on the 'illuminati' and other conspiracy theories. I learnt a whole lot but sometimes felt scared, nervous and confused.
But, 06/06/06 has gone and now 11/11/11 has passed by and the world is still rotating on its axis. I'm seriously not anticipating the end of the world on 2012! Today is a day after the expected Apocalypse and I'm writing happily because my big brother just graduated. Congrats! Life is still ongoing make the most of it. See you guys next year!!
But, 06/06/06 has gone and now 11/11/11 has passed by and the world is still rotating on its axis. I'm seriously not anticipating the end of the world on 2012! Today is a day after the expected Apocalypse and I'm writing happily because my big brother just graduated. Congrats! Life is still ongoing make the most of it. See you guys next year!!
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Hollywood,Bollywood,Nollywood and now Korean series!!!
I am a movie/series fanatic except horror movies especially the Nigerian one's of course. It all began with the Mexican/ Spanish telenovelas they showed in the afternoons during lunch or evenings at supper. I think I got introduced to it by the maid or my Aunty when I was still a kid it was like a feminine ritual and am sure it wasn't only in my house but across the country. Even now, a lot of working women time their lunch breaks when the series are showing and it's not uncommon to see people peeping through windows or shops to catch a glimpse of their favourite telenovela. African tv's are saturated with them!
So, let's estimate an African little girl starts watching them at age eight let's say one telenovela by month at twenty she would have watched 166 telenovelas!! OMG.. To add to that there is now an influx of Indian and Korean movies. Anyways, right now am crazy about this Korean series called Boys Before Flowers(BBF) you should check it on youtube. I was infected by two close friends.Though it's a time waster I've learnt a few words and it has changed my opinion on Asian guys, some of them are really cute lol.
I'm studying pyschology and maybe I should do some research on the effects these telenovelas have on the younger generation or it could even be my thesis. I have come to some conclusions based on my own experience.
Five effects telenovelas have on an African lady:
1 .We believe in fate and love.
2. We hope to fall for romantic men, which rarely happens in this part of the world .
3. Most of the series are western, this has influenced African women to view Caucasians as more romantic and spontaneous then their fellow brothers. Even I believe that!
4. This has made some ladies crazy about finding a Caucasian guy to make them experience all of that.
5. There is a cultural unrelevance here, flowers are substituted for phone credits. How do we reconcile both?
I know most girls would love flowers but.. is it relevant or even feasible in our context?
안녕 = Bye! See you guys soon.
So, let's estimate an African little girl starts watching them at age eight let's say one telenovela by month at twenty she would have watched 166 telenovelas!! OMG.. To add to that there is now an influx of Indian and Korean movies. Anyways, right now am crazy about this Korean series called Boys Before Flowers(BBF) you should check it on youtube. I was infected by two close friends.Though it's a time waster I've learnt a few words and it has changed my opinion on Asian guys, some of them are really cute lol.
I'm studying pyschology and maybe I should do some research on the effects these telenovelas have on the younger generation or it could even be my thesis. I have come to some conclusions based on my own experience.
Five effects telenovelas have on an African lady:
1 .We believe in fate and love.
2. We hope to fall for romantic men, which rarely happens in this part of the world .
3. Most of the series are western, this has influenced African women to view Caucasians as more romantic and spontaneous then their fellow brothers. Even I believe that!
4. This has made some ladies crazy about finding a Caucasian guy to make them experience all of that.
5. There is a cultural unrelevance here, flowers are substituted for phone credits. How do we reconcile both?
I know most girls would love flowers but.. is it relevant or even feasible in our context?
안녕 = Bye! See you guys soon.
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Reaping whatever we sow.
A couple of months ago my Dad called me to help him sow carrot and green peas seeds. He has built this farming system called Aquaponics which uses re-used water from our fishpond to water the plants. So, I did this with him about two months ago and now we are reaping so many vegetables and eating healthy. When we planted the seeds we didn't doubt that they would grow and bear fruit. I was not nervous, uncertain, or scared I actually forgot all about it till i saw the little budding vegetables.
Something clicked in my mind at that moment why do I doubt then when I sow seeds in other aspects of my life.If i bless someone, invest into something, say a kind word or do a kind deed and have faith it will surely come to pass it's a Principle. Likewise,if you sow evil,corruption,lies and deceit you are gonna reap it. I guess thats why they say Karma sucks!
So my personal decision it to sow more into things I want to see a bountiful harvest ;
Study more = Bettergrades * especially this semester when I need that scholarship.
Listen more and obey Parents = If I want to be a Great Mom and have obedient children lol.
Tolerance and Love towards siblings = If I want to strengthen filial bonds.
Understanding and Loving Mr.G = To produce a stonger and loving relationship.
Doing random acts of kindness to strangers = Increases self worth and image.
My sister is always talking about how she doesn't understand how people keep on giving me gifts for no apparent reasons. They could range from 'I saw it and I knew you would love it' or 'I thought of you' and it has been like that since I was a kid, my birthday parties were always full of gifts :) hehe. My sister might disagree with me on this point but I give alot without her or anyone knowing( but she's the exception) it is not always my stuff, or money. It could just be a little as a service, time or food. So, when you give especially to the Lord always have faith and expect the unexpected. It might take a long time, or come in an unexpected way but it will definitely come. I prayed and sowed a seed two months ago and am still hoping and waiting. I have sowed and I shall reap!
Something clicked in my mind at that moment why do I doubt then when I sow seeds in other aspects of my life.If i bless someone, invest into something, say a kind word or do a kind deed and have faith it will surely come to pass it's a Principle. Likewise,if you sow evil,corruption,lies and deceit you are gonna reap it. I guess thats why they say Karma sucks!
So my personal decision it to sow more into things I want to see a bountiful harvest ;
Study more = Bettergrades * especially this semester when I need that scholarship.
Listen more and obey Parents = If I want to be a Great Mom and have obedient children lol.
Tolerance and Love towards siblings = If I want to strengthen filial bonds.
Understanding and Loving Mr.G = To produce a stonger and loving relationship.
Doing random acts of kindness to strangers = Increases self worth and image.
My sister is always talking about how she doesn't understand how people keep on giving me gifts for no apparent reasons. They could range from 'I saw it and I knew you would love it' or 'I thought of you' and it has been like that since I was a kid, my birthday parties were always full of gifts :) hehe. My sister might disagree with me on this point but I give alot without her or anyone knowing( but she's the exception) it is not always my stuff, or money. It could just be a little as a service, time or food. So, when you give especially to the Lord always have faith and expect the unexpected. It might take a long time, or come in an unexpected way but it will definitely come. I prayed and sowed a seed two months ago and am still hoping and waiting. I have sowed and I shall reap!
Saturday, September 17, 2011
M.I.G = Made in Ghana!
I just love the way African Prints can make people look so good. To see more of Mina Evans( Ghanaian fashion designer) click here.
Go ankara fabrics! Check ReneeQ on her website she is absolutely creative.
Monday, September 12, 2011
The intricacies of my love life
There has been a few developments in my young life these few months. Am sure you guys are guessing at this moment...drumroll. I think I have fallen in the big 'L'! (just kidding) Ok, am serious here! I feel like I have put a few pounds because of this emotional state although Mr.G doesn't see any change. I didn't see it coming, thought I was living the life, being all tough, independent and content and now my life as I know it has taken a new dimension. Probably it is the cause of my lackadaisical effort in updating my posts hmm..
Anyways, my closest friends can attest that I used to have crushes every week. I was never really decisive, thus I had an extensive list of crushes and it all began in the first grade!! I grew up pretty fast, which was inevitable with a big sister who used to leave her Mills&Boons books strewn around in her room. Also, I grew up during the time when telenovelas were being introduced I remember how my aunties used to be all dovey eyed and dreamy after watching episodes.Today I will try and summarise the list of my crushes.
P.S this has nothing to do with my 'celebrity crush list' lol.
Grade 1-David (the son of my class 1 teacher,a Nigerian chap)
Grade 2- Atupele( A cute East African, now a facebook friend)
Grade 3- Gabriel(Ghanain boy who my sister used to tease me with)
Grade 4&5- I can't really remenber
Grade 6- Mr Kamara (social studies teacher always got A's )
Grade 7- Ahmed & Karamba (I used to switch from one to another and they were best friends)
Grade 8- Allan ( had a huge crush on him, now we are close friends)
Grade 9- Marc& Alfred (they were the finest guys at the time in high school)
Grade 10- 12. I went on a sabbatical. LOL
University- Anthony& some anonymous guy I kept bumping into...
Now: I'm officially crazy about Mr. G and the amazing thing is that he feels the same way too!
Anyways, my closest friends can attest that I used to have crushes every week. I was never really decisive, thus I had an extensive list of crushes and it all began in the first grade!! I grew up pretty fast, which was inevitable with a big sister who used to leave her Mills&Boons books strewn around in her room. Also, I grew up during the time when telenovelas were being introduced I remember how my aunties used to be all dovey eyed and dreamy after watching episodes.Today I will try and summarise the list of my crushes.
P.S this has nothing to do with my 'celebrity crush list' lol.
Grade 1-David (the son of my class 1 teacher,a Nigerian chap)
Grade 2- Atupele( A cute East African, now a facebook friend)
Grade 3- Gabriel(Ghanain boy who my sister used to tease me with)
Grade 4&5- I can't really remenber
Grade 6- Mr Kamara (social studies teacher always got A's )
Grade 7- Ahmed & Karamba (I used to switch from one to another and they were best friends)
Grade 8- Allan ( had a huge crush on him, now we are close friends)
Grade 9- Marc& Alfred (they were the finest guys at the time in high school)
Grade 10- 12. I went on a sabbatical. LOL
University- Anthony& some anonymous guy I kept bumping into...
Now: I'm officially crazy about Mr. G and the amazing thing is that he feels the same way too!
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
BlacK hair Issues!
Any black woman has gone through hair issues before, it is one of those topics that girls can spend time talking about and sympatising with each other. I have been meaning to write about this for a loong time, and a statement from my Cuban caucasian professor really hit me. She said she didn't understand why Ghanaian women liked wearing fake hair(weave-on) and in Cuba most black women had long healthy hair. As usual, people just laughed and left it at that but I wasn't to pleased. First of all that statement is a generalisation which cannot be applied to all Ghanaian women. I was chatting with a girlfriend today and she told we she was allergic to extensions! I bet she isn't the only one. Secondly, we cannot be compared to cuban blacks because they have a different type of hair texture due to the intermarriages between blacks and whites. Thus their hair is longer and stronger due to the white genes they inherited.
I'm typing right now with extensions in my hair not because I am ashamed of my medium length hair but because of various reasons.
1. Our weather is hot and its frustrating having your hair wet and sticking to ur skin.
2. It is time and money consuming going to the hair salon.
3. Combing and styling your hair every morning before going to school or work is not an option.
I love my hair! Right now, my hair is relaxed but I have been fantasysing of chopping it off and going natural. Read somewhere about the hair industry and how huge corporations are becoming rich by selling human hair( taken from Indian shrines) and relaxer cremes which contain harmful chemicals to our hair and scalp.Guess what?? Their biggest market is in Africa!! Yes, you heard right.
So why do we keep on conforming to what Western culture is portraying as beautiful? Wasn't Cleopatra one of the most beautiful women that ever lived? And, am sure there wasn't Dark& Lovely Relaxer creme then lol.
Anyways this subject has been generating controversy on the blogosphere particularly with African women in the diaspora. Check these blogs.
http://www.msafropolitan.com/2011/09/the-fashion-and-politics-of-natural-hair.html
http://nachalooman.wordpress.com/2011/07/07/nappy-hair-its-not-just-a-black-thang/
http://nachalooman.wordpress.com/2011/05/10/at-what-cost-unnatural-white-beauty-black-woman/
http://www.curlynikki.com/search/label/Transitioning%20Tips%20and%20Resources
I'm typing right now with extensions in my hair not because I am ashamed of my medium length hair but because of various reasons.
1. Our weather is hot and its frustrating having your hair wet and sticking to ur skin.
2. It is time and money consuming going to the hair salon.
3. Combing and styling your hair every morning before going to school or work is not an option.
I love my hair! Right now, my hair is relaxed but I have been fantasysing of chopping it off and going natural. Read somewhere about the hair industry and how huge corporations are becoming rich by selling human hair( taken from Indian shrines) and relaxer cremes which contain harmful chemicals to our hair and scalp.Guess what?? Their biggest market is in Africa!! Yes, you heard right.
So why do we keep on conforming to what Western culture is portraying as beautiful? Wasn't Cleopatra one of the most beautiful women that ever lived? And, am sure there wasn't Dark& Lovely Relaxer creme then lol.
Anyways this subject has been generating controversy on the blogosphere particularly with African women in the diaspora. Check these blogs.
http://www.msafropolitan.com/2011/09/the-fashion-and-politics-of-natural-hair.html
http://nachalooman.wordpress.com/2011/07/07/nappy-hair-its-not-just-a-black-thang/
http://nachalooman.wordpress.com/2011/05/10/at-what-cost-unnatural-white-beauty-black-woman/
http://www.curlynikki.com/search/label/Transitioning%20Tips%20and%20Resources
Friday, August 19, 2011
The Missing Purse
Before I start narrating this melancholic drama, I have to state that this is not fictional but it is based on a true story..
On the 19/08/2011 a girl(me) decided as any other friday to go to her driving class. So, she set off in high spirits hoping she wouldn't hit any car which fortunately did not happen and actually she's been doing pretty well for driving a manual car in this day and age. Anyways the twist in the story happens on her way back. As we all know she does not drive yet, so she had to take a tro-tro. Logically she boards the bus, pays the mate from her purse and proceeds to but it in her huge bag. But, she ends up home without her purse depressed, confused and uncertain now of how it all happened. Let's help her solve this dilemma...
Scenario: 1- She put it in her bag but forgot to zip it.
2-She thought she did number one but left it on her lap and maybe it fell.
3- It fell from her bag as she was walking home.
4-She got down with another passenger and he could have sneeked his hands into her bag.
There wasn't a huge sum of money in it but it contained my ATM cards, my learners drivers license, my student id card and a lot of business cards (*sigh*).
I am praying for a miracle, hopefully I will write the continuation of this post with good news.
On the 19/08/2011 a girl(me) decided as any other friday to go to her driving class. So, she set off in high spirits hoping she wouldn't hit any car which fortunately did not happen and actually she's been doing pretty well for driving a manual car in this day and age. Anyways the twist in the story happens on her way back. As we all know she does not drive yet, so she had to take a tro-tro. Logically she boards the bus, pays the mate from her purse and proceeds to but it in her huge bag. But, she ends up home without her purse depressed, confused and uncertain now of how it all happened. Let's help her solve this dilemma...
Scenario: 1- She put it in her bag but forgot to zip it.
2-She thought she did number one but left it on her lap and maybe it fell.
3- It fell from her bag as she was walking home.
4-She got down with another passenger and he could have sneeked his hands into her bag.
There wasn't a huge sum of money in it but it contained my ATM cards, my learners drivers license, my student id card and a lot of business cards (*sigh*).
I am praying for a miracle, hopefully I will write the continuation of this post with good news.
Monday, August 15, 2011
Could London Riots happen in Africa? No way!
I was browsing youtube as usual and I found this very funny Nigerian sitcom which had a response on the London Riots. The video shows exactly why this wouldn't happen here 13 year olds raiding shops?? You have got to be kidding me. Anyways enjoy..
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Road rage, man holes and driving lessons..
Hoot!Hoot! kwasiaaa!(stupid in twi).. huge pot holes that procreate everyday and become deeper and wider by the minute. In my opinion African drivers have the hardest time ever, compared to the western nations. If you think am exaggerating allow me to list the 'wahala' we go through every single day.
1. Pot holes as huge as the craters on the moon. The origin of these mostly begin during the rainy season as a result of a poorly built road.
2. Policemen on pavements for some purpose. Why don't we brainstorm to figure out what exactly they do at those unlikely curves or busy streets.. Hmm..What could that be? Controlling traffic? Yehh... rite
3. Crazy commercial drivers. Anything from tro-tro's to taxis in fact, I should have made them the first danger but they are indispensable for the citizen's transportation.
4. Heat mixed with exhaust fumes! One of the worst places any one can be is parked behind an old rickety car during traffic. If there now exists fashion police then there should also be ozone protective police and maybe their based should be Ghana seriously.
5. Road rage. It is not uncommon to see these crazy drivers hoot, shout or insult at any trivial thing. Shouting earlier puts the person in a level or superiority over the other. When things start heating up then, one can now proceed to descend from the car whilst shouting.. to cut the long story short this ends in aggravating the already existing traffic.
The list goes on and on; hawkers, couples having intense conversations in their cars, handicaps begging for money and frustrated wifes.
As a result am not really excited about my driving lessons, am just at level 1 which is pass driving test and get license. But, even that one is a headache so imagine level 2 and 3.
Anyways am ending on a happy note as always, which is there is nothing better than cruising in your ride with your fave music blaring out the stereo. Keeping fingers crossed :)
1. Pot holes as huge as the craters on the moon. The origin of these mostly begin during the rainy season as a result of a poorly built road.
2. Policemen on pavements for some purpose. Why don't we brainstorm to figure out what exactly they do at those unlikely curves or busy streets.. Hmm..What could that be? Controlling traffic? Yehh... rite
3. Crazy commercial drivers. Anything from tro-tro's to taxis in fact, I should have made them the first danger but they are indispensable for the citizen's transportation.
4. Heat mixed with exhaust fumes! One of the worst places any one can be is parked behind an old rickety car during traffic. If there now exists fashion police then there should also be ozone protective police and maybe their based should be Ghana seriously.
5. Road rage. It is not uncommon to see these crazy drivers hoot, shout or insult at any trivial thing. Shouting earlier puts the person in a level or superiority over the other. When things start heating up then, one can now proceed to descend from the car whilst shouting.. to cut the long story short this ends in aggravating the already existing traffic.
The list goes on and on; hawkers, couples having intense conversations in their cars, handicaps begging for money and frustrated wifes.
As a result am not really excited about my driving lessons, am just at level 1 which is pass driving test and get license. But, even that one is a headache so imagine level 2 and 3.
Anyways am ending on a happy note as always, which is there is nothing better than cruising in your ride with your fave music blaring out the stereo. Keeping fingers crossed :)
Saturday, July 23, 2011
Who said Christian guys are not romantic?
Two lovely songs I found!
B.Reith- Awestruck
Sho Baraka- We can be more
B.Reith- Awestruck
Sho Baraka- We can be more
Survival guide to Ghanaian Weddings/Engagements.
It's July yipee! This month is so special to me cause my mum is born on this month and so am I. But, lets reverse to last month because I want to talk about weddings and June was so full of them. I had a wedding on my agenda every saturday, it was exciting at first but later it became so tiring. As we all know weddings are a time of gathering to celebrate two people who love each other bla bla etc. Anyways, I had a month of experience so this is what I learnt; I will categorize it in the do's, dont's and likely to happen in a Ghanaian wedding :)
Do's:
1. Look hot. Preferably an african print dress or simple dress with heels to match.( if you're sewing something drop it at the tailor's a month before plus the engagement cloth too lol)
2. Bring a gift but better still take an envelope with money that will be much appreciated.(sat at a gift table in one wedding and the envelopes were more than the gifts)
3.Take a friend or sista. Weddings never start on time..
4. If it is a church wedding prepare two offerings one for the church and the other for the couple hmm..
5. Smile and keep fingers crossed.
Dont's:
1. Do not go empty handed! Plan B- envelopes..
2. Do not look like a peacock(overdressed,underdressed or show too much skin)
3. Do not wear a nice white dress to a wedding it's believed you will be stealing the attention from the bride.
Likely to happen*
1. Annoying photographers snapping shots of you and expecting you to pay later.
2. Hugging and kissing loads of people.
3. Feeling underdressed cause Ghanaian chick can dress!
4. Being called to help serve,usher,pop champagne without prior notice
5. Meeting really nice people.
P.s follow these rules and you will become a conoisseur of Ghanaian weddings.
Do's:
1. Look hot. Preferably an african print dress or simple dress with heels to match.( if you're sewing something drop it at the tailor's a month before plus the engagement cloth too lol)
2. Bring a gift but better still take an envelope with money that will be much appreciated.(sat at a gift table in one wedding and the envelopes were more than the gifts)
3.Take a friend or sista. Weddings never start on time..
4. If it is a church wedding prepare two offerings one for the church and the other for the couple hmm..
5. Smile and keep fingers crossed.
Dont's:
1. Do not go empty handed! Plan B- envelopes..
2. Do not look like a peacock(overdressed,underdressed or show too much skin)
3. Do not wear a nice white dress to a wedding it's believed you will be stealing the attention from the bride.
Likely to happen*
1. Annoying photographers snapping shots of you and expecting you to pay later.
2. Hugging and kissing loads of people.
3. Feeling underdressed cause Ghanaian chick can dress!
4. Being called to help serve,usher,pop champagne without prior notice
5. Meeting really nice people.
P.s follow these rules and you will become a conoisseur of Ghanaian weddings.
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
African Renaissance is here to stay!
There is this resurgence in African identity and am wondering is it due to Obama, the return of Fela, Africans in the diaspora or the modernization and impact of globalization on Africa. It is now common to see words like Afropilitan, Afrocentric, Afro- couture and seeing African prints on major fashion shows.
La vie est en rose! Me thinks is the best time to feel African( I dont mean it was worse before) but mentalities have changed and the youth is embracing our culture with a tinge of westernization.
I have been obssesed with some blogs and I find myself reading more than writing. Silence is golden, right? So am going to share some of the blogs I have been following religiously :) and the common trend is that they are all written by Africans in the diaspora on culture, arts, relationships and a whole lot of things. You will surely leave these blogs with knowledge on a variety of things.
Goodluck!
Humor- http://fuckyesafricans.tumblr.com/archive
Fashion- http://www.hautefashionafrica.com/
Music,Arts& culture- http://www.harlemloves.com/ http://thatgoodgoodblog.blogspot.com, http://themusingsofondolady.blogspot.com .http://www.msafropolitan.com
Photography - http://nanakofiacquah.blogspot.com , http://spaceshipgeorge.blogspot.com
La vie est en rose! Me thinks is the best time to feel African( I dont mean it was worse before) but mentalities have changed and the youth is embracing our culture with a tinge of westernization.
I have been obssesed with some blogs and I find myself reading more than writing. Silence is golden, right? So am going to share some of the blogs I have been following religiously :) and the common trend is that they are all written by Africans in the diaspora on culture, arts, relationships and a whole lot of things. You will surely leave these blogs with knowledge on a variety of things.
Goodluck!
Humor- http://fuckyesafricans.tumblr.com/archive
Fashion- http://www.hautefashionafrica.com/
Music,Arts& culture- http://www.harlemloves.com/ http://thatgoodgoodblog.blogspot.com, http://themusingsofondolady.blogspot.com .http://www.msafropolitan.com
Photography - http://nanakofiacquah.blogspot.com , http://spaceshipgeorge.blogspot.com
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Purpose driven life. Part 2
LOL..writing Purpose Driving life part 2 made me remember these ghanain movies where there is part 1 till 10
Anyways, this is just the continuation from previous post. Frankly, I wasn't able to do the one hour meditation about my life because I think it's just not for me but God has been telling me in more subtle ways. Does that sound strange? Well, it shouldn't. He speaks and for me it has been through people, dreams or an event that happens. I have never had the experience of a loud voice shouting my name.. Amen for that.
So last Sunday my sis Abe, Carl and I decided to go watch an Ebo Whyte play( Ghanaian Tyler Perry). When we arrived the place was packed full.. the parking was full, the sidewalks and even the streets with were full of cars. Then Carl says 'chale the man is gettun money ohh' and I was just seating at the back seat nodding my head in agreement then he added ' You know when you have a talent and you use it well God blesses you'. Then Abe adds sorry for saying this but ' Chale if shitting sef is your talent and you do it with all your heart you will make money out of it'. After this funny intervention we all laugh and are good spirits.
But, later coming to think of it it's really true I know God sent us each with a purpose so it shouldn't a few who succeed. Have we made a funeral for our dreams? Considering we are in Ghana it must have been pompous in style, full of music and dancing.
This week, God showed me a desire I have..and am not willing to share it publicly (don't be mad guys).
Now, that I know.. another question is HOW? It is really worrying me.. what are the steps I should take? what should I do next? He is greater than me, I leave it up to him.
For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
Anyways, this is just the continuation from previous post. Frankly, I wasn't able to do the one hour meditation about my life because I think it's just not for me but God has been telling me in more subtle ways. Does that sound strange? Well, it shouldn't. He speaks and for me it has been through people, dreams or an event that happens. I have never had the experience of a loud voice shouting my name.. Amen for that.
So last Sunday my sis Abe, Carl and I decided to go watch an Ebo Whyte play( Ghanaian Tyler Perry). When we arrived the place was packed full.. the parking was full, the sidewalks and even the streets with were full of cars. Then Carl says 'chale the man is gettun money ohh' and I was just seating at the back seat nodding my head in agreement then he added ' You know when you have a talent and you use it well God blesses you'. Then Abe adds sorry for saying this but ' Chale if shitting sef is your talent and you do it with all your heart you will make money out of it'. After this funny intervention we all laugh and are good spirits.
But, later coming to think of it it's really true I know God sent us each with a purpose so it shouldn't a few who succeed. Have we made a funeral for our dreams? Considering we are in Ghana it must have been pompous in style, full of music and dancing.
This week, God showed me a desire I have..and am not willing to share it publicly (don't be mad guys).
Now, that I know.. another question is HOW? It is really worrying me.. what are the steps I should take? what should I do next? He is greater than me, I leave it up to him.
For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
Looking, searching and hoping for Mr. Right.
Can't wait to meet him... umm could it be him? Well, maybe not..
Guess you are wondering why am starting with these questions well.. these are questions I ask myself on a daily basis whenever I bump into my potential Mr Right.
I meet Mr.A he is funny, smart and all that but kinda short. Oh! now am not so sure about it then comes Mr.B taller, than me, has the same passion but he don't make me laugh like Mr A. Finally in comes crashing Mr C tall(check), funny, working towards his dreams etc, but there's something just not right.. Aaarrgh!!
Thats when I realize that God had a reason for not making females the head of the family we are soo indecisive and it is not only with men but shoes, bags, clothes everything! :) This week was talking to my big sister about a guy I met recently and who am becoming close with.
She: So do you like him?
Me: No, umm i mean yes if you mean as a friend
She: You are a very confused girl, I believe you like him before when you hadn't talked to him.
Me: Yeh, maybe( in my head- its kinda true heard about him before I met him and fancied him a LITTLE)
She: You know your problem, you like guys when they don't like you back, remember Anthony... when they
start showing interest you change your mind.
Me: It's true ohh, never thought of it.. and I'm studying psychology too should have noticed it. But, I don't think I like what I can't get.. it's more like the fear that the person would be the wrong one for me and might blind me from seeing my Mr.Right.
So, what do I want.. hmm God you know! I am not asking for too much right? A Ghanaian fine boy :) Someone who loves you, and is searching for a girl like me. A man that has dreams that complement mine, who would be romantic and bring me flowers from time to time. A spontaneous and witty man who can pick me up frm church and say today we are heading to somewhere special.. a guy that can make me LOL! A person I can share my dreams, hopes and fears, someone who would not break my heart.. the list goes on but finally A man that my Dad would see and say 'I accept him as the one for you and I give you my blessing'.
I am still hoping..(Huge grin on my face)
Guess you are wondering why am starting with these questions well.. these are questions I ask myself on a daily basis whenever I bump into my potential Mr Right.
I meet Mr.A he is funny, smart and all that but kinda short. Oh! now am not so sure about it then comes Mr.B taller, than me, has the same passion but he don't make me laugh like Mr A. Finally in comes crashing Mr C tall(check), funny, working towards his dreams etc, but there's something just not right.. Aaarrgh!!
Thats when I realize that God had a reason for not making females the head of the family we are soo indecisive and it is not only with men but shoes, bags, clothes everything! :) This week was talking to my big sister about a guy I met recently and who am becoming close with.
She: So do you like him?
Me: No, umm i mean yes if you mean as a friend
She: You are a very confused girl, I believe you like him before when you hadn't talked to him.
Me: Yeh, maybe( in my head- its kinda true heard about him before I met him and fancied him a LITTLE)
She: You know your problem, you like guys when they don't like you back, remember Anthony... when they
start showing interest you change your mind.
Me: It's true ohh, never thought of it.. and I'm studying psychology too should have noticed it. But, I don't think I like what I can't get.. it's more like the fear that the person would be the wrong one for me and might blind me from seeing my Mr.Right.
So, what do I want.. hmm God you know! I am not asking for too much right? A Ghanaian fine boy :) Someone who loves you, and is searching for a girl like me. A man that has dreams that complement mine, who would be romantic and bring me flowers from time to time. A spontaneous and witty man who can pick me up frm church and say today we are heading to somewhere special.. a guy that can make me LOL! A person I can share my dreams, hopes and fears, someone who would not break my heart.. the list goes on but finally A man that my Dad would see and say 'I accept him as the one for you and I give you my blessing'.
I am still hoping..(Huge grin on my face)
Saturday, June 4, 2011
The Purpose driven life.
I read a book some time ago, that narrated the experience of a woman who had been to heaven. She said God sent each of us on earth for a purpose it could vary from just helping a single person during our whole lifetime or impacting a number of people.Also most of the friends or people we see and have an instant liking to were those who we had chosen to be our helpers on earth to achieve that purpose.
So, I have been in a pensive and meditative mood for a week now. It all started when I went to this worship concert with my sister.. it was a memorable one. The atmosphere was electric, I felt transported to a secret place where it was me and God. And, what was the medium of transport? Music! I am passionate about music.. could my purpose have anything to do with it?? Hmm
The following day met with a good friend of mine, he has amazing talent for writing poetry and motivational words. Most of the time we just joke around, tease each other but on this occassion we found ourselves talking about the people in our lives. He categorized them into three; reason,season and..(ohh I forgot ) . Anyways, I realized that everyone I had come in contact with was for a reason. When that dawned on me I realized I had friends that never heard the good news and were not impacted. Another question popped into my mind what if these people God placed into my life were there to help me achieve the purpose God has for my life?
Later this week I read one of my favourite blogs and guess what was the post for the day...yeh you guessed right. It was; what is your life purpose? It had an article on Clayton M.Christensen a Professor at Harvard who researched and found out that the world's best students at Harvard Business school had never really thought about their purpose in life. He decided to spend an hour immensing himself meditating, praying and pondering what was his purpose and finally he figured it out. He believes is the most important thing he has ever achieved. Are you willing to take that challenge with me?
Questions to ponder:
1. What is your purpose in life?
2. Are you working towards it?
So, I have been in a pensive and meditative mood for a week now. It all started when I went to this worship concert with my sister.. it was a memorable one. The atmosphere was electric, I felt transported to a secret place where it was me and God. And, what was the medium of transport? Music! I am passionate about music.. could my purpose have anything to do with it?? Hmm
The following day met with a good friend of mine, he has amazing talent for writing poetry and motivational words. Most of the time we just joke around, tease each other but on this occassion we found ourselves talking about the people in our lives. He categorized them into three; reason,season and..(ohh I forgot ) . Anyways, I realized that everyone I had come in contact with was for a reason. When that dawned on me I realized I had friends that never heard the good news and were not impacted. Another question popped into my mind what if these people God placed into my life were there to help me achieve the purpose God has for my life?
Later this week I read one of my favourite blogs and guess what was the post for the day...yeh you guessed right. It was; what is your life purpose? It had an article on Clayton M.Christensen a Professor at Harvard who researched and found out that the world's best students at Harvard Business school had never really thought about their purpose in life. He decided to spend an hour immensing himself meditating, praying and pondering what was his purpose and finally he figured it out. He believes is the most important thing he has ever achieved. Are you willing to take that challenge with me?
Questions to ponder:
1. What is your purpose in life?
2. Are you working towards it?
Monday, May 30, 2011
In love with the Unknown
Am in love
Yes, in love with the unknown
Please do not ask me of whom?
The mere thought of him renders me speechless..
He is indescribable,invisible yet so encompassing that He is here at this vey moment.
When did I fall for him?
That is the wrong question. Because He was mad in love with me even before I existed.
There is no point trying to analyse it, this chemistry supercedes time.
Is his love real?
As real as the shining sun and as deep as the ocean. It is so real I feel his furthery kisses each time my hair sways in the wind and I get butterflies in my stomach whenever I listen to his symphony.
Has his love ever failed me?
No and it never will. I rest assured because He wrote our love story and ended it with a ' happily eternal after'.
Once, He died for me but rose again because He could not stand to see me all alone.
Also, He created love to express all the feelings He has for me, because saying it and showing it would not be enough.
I am worthy of such a love?
NO, absolutely no. I do not deserve the perfect gentleman, warrior and poet.
When all I've been is a perfect cheat, liar,thief and hypocrite.
Yet, He still loves me with all my flaws and He sticks with in good times and bad times, in poverty and in richness, in sickness and in good health.
What did I do to deserve this?
Nothing, it was a gift with no strings attached..
Yes, in love with the unknown
Please do not ask me of whom?
The mere thought of him renders me speechless..
He is indescribable,invisible yet so encompassing that He is here at this vey moment.
When did I fall for him?
That is the wrong question. Because He was mad in love with me even before I existed.
There is no point trying to analyse it, this chemistry supercedes time.
Is his love real?
As real as the shining sun and as deep as the ocean. It is so real I feel his furthery kisses each time my hair sways in the wind and I get butterflies in my stomach whenever I listen to his symphony.
Has his love ever failed me?
No and it never will. I rest assured because He wrote our love story and ended it with a ' happily eternal after'.
Once, He died for me but rose again because He could not stand to see me all alone.
Also, He created love to express all the feelings He has for me, because saying it and showing it would not be enough.
I am worthy of such a love?
NO, absolutely no. I do not deserve the perfect gentleman, warrior and poet.
When all I've been is a perfect cheat, liar,thief and hypocrite.
Yet, He still loves me with all my flaws and He sticks with in good times and bad times, in poverty and in richness, in sickness and in good health.
What did I do to deserve this?
Nothing, it was a gift with no strings attached..
Thursday, April 7, 2011
Expect Change!
At the beginning of the year I promised myself to blog every day and record my thoughts but.. it is official this year has been the year of 'spontaneous developments'. Everything I envisioned did not go as I thought. Nobody knows tomorow! That saying is really true and thats why you have to make the best of whatever, time,resource and happiness you get.
My 1st major setback, the war in Cote Divoire. My parents work there altough my siblings and I are in Accra, but because of this war they are back in Ghana starting their business from scratch, most of the luxuries I enjoyed are no more on a daily basis. I have become conversant with public transport, I dont remember the last time I went shopping for a new dress and now I realize the importance of prioritizing in every aspect of life.
2nd unplanned event. There has been an increase in the inhabitants in my house- we've got now, workers from my mom's job, visitors who drive in and out.etc
3rd divine accident. RESPONSABILITIES. I have a part time job on my university campus, I got it without a CV or interview. In church am now a teacher, youth commitee event organizer and a sister to a lot of people. And, I believe there is more to come. God says if we can not be diligent with the little he gives us, how can we expect more?
I was watching Myles Munroe the other day(if you dont know him just google him) and he said something that I never realized. He said 'Expect change' who ever expects change? We are so content staying in the status quo and playing with the familiar that when something unexpected happens we blame God or get depressed.
But, nothing in this world is static. There is day and night, plants grow then fade, people live later die, the economy booms and then crashes but God is forever. As humans we should expect change so when trials come our way we will be prepared. This season is one of change for me, things are different but my hope is in the fact that it would not last. Ecclesiastes 3: 1. For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven.
My 1st major setback, the war in Cote Divoire. My parents work there altough my siblings and I are in Accra, but because of this war they are back in Ghana starting their business from scratch, most of the luxuries I enjoyed are no more on a daily basis. I have become conversant with public transport, I dont remember the last time I went shopping for a new dress and now I realize the importance of prioritizing in every aspect of life.
2nd unplanned event. There has been an increase in the inhabitants in my house- we've got now, workers from my mom's job, visitors who drive in and out.etc
3rd divine accident. RESPONSABILITIES. I have a part time job on my university campus, I got it without a CV or interview. In church am now a teacher, youth commitee event organizer and a sister to a lot of people. And, I believe there is more to come. God says if we can not be diligent with the little he gives us, how can we expect more?
I was watching Myles Munroe the other day(if you dont know him just google him) and he said something that I never realized. He said 'Expect change' who ever expects change? We are so content staying in the status quo and playing with the familiar that when something unexpected happens we blame God or get depressed.
But, nothing in this world is static. There is day and night, plants grow then fade, people live later die, the economy booms and then crashes but God is forever. As humans we should expect change so when trials come our way we will be prepared. This season is one of change for me, things are different but my hope is in the fact that it would not last. Ecclesiastes 3: 1. For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven.
Sunday, February 6, 2011
When did St. Valentine drop in Ghana?
Valentine day is a few days away.. I do not understand why there is so much hype about this day. For chrissake am in Ghana!! When did Saint Valentine come to this tropical zone and start matching up couples.. Anyways, I have been already to a wedding of a close family friend, have been asked countless times if I had a boyfriend and to crown it all I am part of my church's youth commitee. And, we are organizing a Valentines dinner where everyone can socialize, munch on some tit bits and get advice from young married couples.
Why are girls are made to believe in happy endings? My mum told me that I was a fan of Cinderella and I constantly begged her to buy me princess like dresses. In fairytales, fate always manages to bring two individuals who are destined to be together. But does it really happen in real life?
These past weeks I have been hearing so much of depressing things concerning relationships, from sugar daddies, abortions and women going through all manner of surgeries or medications to enhance their boobs or the buttocks. It's absolutely ridiculous!
African girls should stay true to ourselves we are African queens our culture is different from the west. Our definition of beauty is what we refer to 'coca cola shaped' enough flesh at the right places. We are women of virtue; hardworkers,providers,mothers and sisters. Love doesn't dwell only on the physical it is way more than that. Finally because am less experienced in the relationship/love department am just going to end with a bible verse that sums it all. That's what am expecting from my Mr. Right.
Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth, bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,endures all things.
Why are girls are made to believe in happy endings? My mum told me that I was a fan of Cinderella and I constantly begged her to buy me princess like dresses. In fairytales, fate always manages to bring two individuals who are destined to be together. But does it really happen in real life?
These past weeks I have been hearing so much of depressing things concerning relationships, from sugar daddies, abortions and women going through all manner of surgeries or medications to enhance their boobs or the buttocks. It's absolutely ridiculous!
African girls should stay true to ourselves we are African queens our culture is different from the west. Our definition of beauty is what we refer to 'coca cola shaped' enough flesh at the right places. We are women of virtue; hardworkers,providers,mothers and sisters. Love doesn't dwell only on the physical it is way more than that. Finally because am less experienced in the relationship/love department am just going to end with a bible verse that sums it all. That's what am expecting from my Mr. Right.
Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth, bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,endures all things.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Lessons learnt but not from the old...
Gosh! When I started this blog it was my aim to write posts every single day, but now am sorely dissapointed.
2011 has really brought with it so many surprises. I got a partime job helping foreign students settle in Ghana which is pretty much fun and on top of that am helping at my mum's new school. Furthermore, youth meetings need to be attended, choir rehearsals and other mundane tasks like cooking, cleaning etc.
Anyways am not here to discuss my hectic life but talk about something I learnt this week.
From the kids I teach I learnt how to cultivate patience. You know how people keep saying you can learn from anything. So, I thought what could I possibly learn from 3-5 year olds? Nothing academic of course.. we have been reciting the ABC's for a week now but they keep on forgetting. It's so frustrating repeating yourself over and over but then you know through all this agony your leaving an indelible mark which would show in years to come.
Also I realised this week that my world as I know it may be so simple, understanding and kitsch to me but could be another range of ajectives for another person. I sat in a orientation lecture organized for foreign exchange students and it dawned on me that my Ghanaian culture could be described as strict, pre-modern nonetheless friendly to all. It sounded strange at first but I quickly accepted the facts, I am 19, boyfriend less, still have a curfew, my parents are strict no guys allowed to visit at certain times yet I don't see anything wrong because I have become accustomed to it. Ghanaian culture still doesn't accept homosexuality and so do I, women are expected to do most house chores , get married and not end up single mothers. We still view the left hand as the evil hand, so we do not give presents or take them using that hand.
Ghanaians are staunch believers of sorcery , witchcraft and divination and are less enthused at science. But, we are so friendly and I experience it everyday when a market seller gives me more tomatoes than i payed for or some anonymous person pays my bus fare for me with no ulterior motive. From a westerner's view of point we may be pre-modern but I think that's what makes us so unique and heartwarming. I'm going to end this note with a familiar local saying 'Travel and see'. Learn about different cultures you would be amazed! You could end up appreciating your culture more than ever.
2011 has really brought with it so many surprises. I got a partime job helping foreign students settle in Ghana which is pretty much fun and on top of that am helping at my mum's new school. Furthermore, youth meetings need to be attended, choir rehearsals and other mundane tasks like cooking, cleaning etc.
Anyways am not here to discuss my hectic life but talk about something I learnt this week.
From the kids I teach I learnt how to cultivate patience. You know how people keep saying you can learn from anything. So, I thought what could I possibly learn from 3-5 year olds? Nothing academic of course.. we have been reciting the ABC's for a week now but they keep on forgetting. It's so frustrating repeating yourself over and over but then you know through all this agony your leaving an indelible mark which would show in years to come.
Also I realised this week that my world as I know it may be so simple, understanding and kitsch to me but could be another range of ajectives for another person. I sat in a orientation lecture organized for foreign exchange students and it dawned on me that my Ghanaian culture could be described as strict, pre-modern nonetheless friendly to all. It sounded strange at first but I quickly accepted the facts, I am 19, boyfriend less, still have a curfew, my parents are strict no guys allowed to visit at certain times yet I don't see anything wrong because I have become accustomed to it. Ghanaian culture still doesn't accept homosexuality and so do I, women are expected to do most house chores , get married and not end up single mothers. We still view the left hand as the evil hand, so we do not give presents or take them using that hand.
Ghanaians are staunch believers of sorcery , witchcraft and divination and are less enthused at science. But, we are so friendly and I experience it everyday when a market seller gives me more tomatoes than i payed for or some anonymous person pays my bus fare for me with no ulterior motive. From a westerner's view of point we may be pre-modern but I think that's what makes us so unique and heartwarming. I'm going to end this note with a familiar local saying 'Travel and see'. Learn about different cultures you would be amazed! You could end up appreciating your culture more than ever.
Saturday, January 22, 2011
2O Best African Artistes of all times!
Africa has been blessed with great artistes and I want to appreciate them in my own way either dead or alive. So, this is my list of the Best African Musicians. It varies from soul to reggae and some might make you smile or even cry. Enjoy the best of African music by listening to each one of them.
1. Miriam Makeba
2.Lucky dube
3. Yvonne Chaka chaka
4. Ceasaria Evoria
5. Salif Keita
6. Papa Wemba
7. Kojo Antwi
8. Youssou N'dour
9. Cheb Khaled
10. Fela Kuti
11. Brenda Fassie
13. Miriam et Amadou
14. Oumou Sangare
15. Angelique Kidjo
16. Kofi Olomide
17. Alpha Blondy
18. Lokua Akanza
19. K'naan
PS. Leave any comments, you may disagree or you can suggest that I add someone else. Who knows? I could extend it to 25 or 30!
1. Miriam Makeba
2.Lucky dube
3. Yvonne Chaka chaka
5. Salif Keita
6. Papa Wemba
7. Kojo Antwi
8. Youssou N'dour
9. Cheb Khaled
10. Fela Kuti
11. Brenda Fassie
12. Tiken Jah
13. Miriam et Amadou
14. Oumou Sangare
15. Angelique Kidjo
17. Alpha Blondy
18. Lokua Akanza
19. K'naan
20. Nneka
PS. Leave any comments, you may disagree or you can suggest that I add someone else. Who knows? I could extend it to 25 or 30!
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Friday, January 14, 2011
Highlife,Hiplife, Soul Music and Ghanaian rhythms
People say music is their religion, Shakespeare said it is the fruit of love. My opinion is that music is like a sixth sense it is universal, does not discriminate and it has the power to relax, destress and gently rock our senses. I am crazy about all types of musical genres from acapella to zouk and I constantly search for talented artists around the world. However, I have lamentably noticed that African music and especially Ghanaian music is not represented internationally but we have great old artistes like Kojo Antwi( who reminds me of Lionel Richie)his musical genre is called highlife and recently there are gifted artistes like Becca and Jay Ghartey. Ghanaian music can be divided into two main genres Highlife which originated in Ghana in the 1900s and spread to other west African countries by 1920. It is influenced by jazz tunes and multiple guitars. Hiplife is recent and is a mixture of highlife and hiphop hence the name hiplife.
1. EL MAESTRO of Highlife. Kojo Antwi - Mirika
2. Kwabena kwabena - Obi do wa do ni be(luv this song!)
3. Becca ft. kwabena kwabena - U lied to me
4. M.anifest- Coming to America
1. EL MAESTRO of Highlife. Kojo Antwi - Mirika
2. Kwabena kwabena - Obi do wa do ni be(luv this song!)
3. Becca ft. kwabena kwabena - U lied to me
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
An imported Ghanaian
I am Ghanaian all right because I am a proud owner of a passport emblemed with 'The Republic of Ghana'.
But, on a more serious note I have been a permanent resident in Accra for two years now. I was born and raised in Cote D'Ivoire which am sure you all know now since it has become the first country to have two ruling presidents for more than 3 months now, it deserves to be in The Guiness World Book.
Thus, am an Imported Ghanaian (term used for ghanaians that have been away to long). My first encounter with this phrase was through a satirical book written by; Alba Kunadu Sumprim. The story is narrated through cartoon characters so no excuses for you lazy readers .Check her out on www.theimportedghanaian.com
Anyways I think I can give myself some brownie points for adapting pretty well to my country. If one wants to know if he/she has fitted appropriately into my culture the person should be able to; sit in traffic for two hours in the tropical heat congested with car fumes, not forgetting the occasional honks of taxis and buses yet enjoy the beauty of the chaos which could have been prevented if one car had obeyed the traffic light and stopped when it was red.
Another thing I should be proud of is the improvment of my fluency in' twi' and 'pidgen' . Note! this is very critical in any transaction. Whether when stopping a taxi or buying a yard of cloth in the market. First reason, it reduces the chances of any trader duping you because he or she believes your a foreigner and can make more profit from you. Secondly, it makes everything much simpler today I was able to maintain a conversation with a cab driver and he talked about reckless drivers, risen petrol prices and more. Lastly, if you are able to fall asleep although your neighbour is a church which constantly sings, prays and chants because it believes it can attract non-belivers with this strategy or a 'drinking spot' around the corner that booms non-stop all night long with nigerian and ghanaian latest hit songs then you have conquered it all.
Surprisingly, it is pretty calm today. Lord thankyou! Really need my beauty sleepy got assigned to a voluntary organisation today will tell you more... next time.
But, on a more serious note I have been a permanent resident in Accra for two years now. I was born and raised in Cote D'Ivoire which am sure you all know now since it has become the first country to have two ruling presidents for more than 3 months now, it deserves to be in The Guiness World Book.
Thus, am an Imported Ghanaian (term used for ghanaians that have been away to long). My first encounter with this phrase was through a satirical book written by; Alba Kunadu Sumprim. The story is narrated through cartoon characters so no excuses for you lazy readers .Check her out on www.theimportedghanaian.com
Anyways I think I can give myself some brownie points for adapting pretty well to my country. If one wants to know if he/she has fitted appropriately into my culture the person should be able to; sit in traffic for two hours in the tropical heat congested with car fumes, not forgetting the occasional honks of taxis and buses yet enjoy the beauty of the chaos which could have been prevented if one car had obeyed the traffic light and stopped when it was red.
Another thing I should be proud of is the improvment of my fluency in' twi' and 'pidgen' . Note! this is very critical in any transaction. Whether when stopping a taxi or buying a yard of cloth in the market. First reason, it reduces the chances of any trader duping you because he or she believes your a foreigner and can make more profit from you. Secondly, it makes everything much simpler today I was able to maintain a conversation with a cab driver and he talked about reckless drivers, risen petrol prices and more. Lastly, if you are able to fall asleep although your neighbour is a church which constantly sings, prays and chants because it believes it can attract non-belivers with this strategy or a 'drinking spot' around the corner that booms non-stop all night long with nigerian and ghanaian latest hit songs then you have conquered it all.
Surprisingly, it is pretty calm today. Lord thankyou! Really need my beauty sleepy got assigned to a voluntary organisation today will tell you more... next time.
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Tabular Rasa
Am sure you are wondering wassup with this greek, latin or whatever ancient language title 'Tabular rasa'. Well, I wanted something original to be my first post title and this is a product of deep thinking. I started with Fresh beginnings, it sounded cliche, and then enlightenment but it sounded to scientific and out of the blue I remembered 'tabular rasa that was one of the first things I learnt in my psychology class- meaning clean slate. So, it's final. Today just seems like the perfect day to start a blog..
1. It is a tuesday(a day after monday)!
2. January is the first month.
3.Today's date is 11-01-2011
These reasons are enough.
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